Ah ha! This is the most interesting topic to share with, especially among the women-from all stages of age! ;) The kids love to imagine how's their wedding gonna looks like-preferences are always get the influence from the fairy tales collection. Let it be Cinderella, Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, etc. Some gets their ideas from Barbies too! And the ideas keep changing as they grow up.. Even the elderly women have their own imagination too!-of which, they are dreaming for their children. Often, get the 'rejection' from their soon-to-get-married child.. ehe. maybe it was because too outdated, too traditional.. I don't know, for centuries, there are always gap between the young and older generation.. so, different view, different thoughts!
Now, its been a while since I stop imagining of my dream wedding! Unsuccessful relationship, unwanted, not the type, differences, not approved, etc.. Love sometime get really tedious especially when both side didn't work things out as a team.. luckily, Coach A is in the same boat as I am.. =) We did have our rough time some time, but at the end, we sort things out.. perhaps it is because of our age.. I mean, we are a grown up person now.. more mature and think differently.. give and take concept really pull things out! Hope that we can blend better in future for the sake of a happy relationship! ^_^
My dream wedding would be a tropical theme wedding! Well, lots of happy and cheerful colours.. tropical colours.. laid back. relaxed.. nice food.. and a simple one.. it should be beyond the budget.. and I prefer to do most of the decoration all by myself , with the help from friends and family (of course!).. i am sure i will find satisfaction in it.. orange, pink, blue, white, green, turquoise some reds, some yellow.. yippeee! just what i need.. ngeee.. this photos inspired me much;-
Thanks Google http://www.destinweddings.org/packages.html
Thanks Google http://www.boracay.travel/travel-info/boracay-beach-wedding
as for the hand bouquet.. i really love to have hibiscus.. like the Hawaiian had for their weddings.. perhaps, some orchids.. well, to be exact, i would love to have something local, traditional and authentic.. arrange with a touch of creativity, i am pretty sure it will look lovely.. roses are romantic and sweet, but, Coach A gave a lot before.. so, not going to have it for my wedding.. =P
Foods would be from the range of healthy food.. i my terms, that would be:- steamed fish, rice of course, lots of vege, fruits, mouthwatering desserts, maybe ABC, etc.. <-- sounds like, "I can have these in my everyday menu too!".. ekeke.. am just saying, from my truthfully tongue! ahaks.. This is the cake i fancied!
A wedding without entertainment is not complete.. I am imagining to have a group of Iban dancers, dancing our traditional dance.. perhaps a group of Kenyah too.. that complete my origin.. Plus, zapin by small kids and of course, most importance a silat performance.. (Coach A might love my idea!).. Never let the karaoke session being left out.. Hey, my siblings love to sing, my uncles too, my friends! In between, I will get the DJ to play the oldies and retro songs.. my parents have their own list ready i guess..
MC is the most important role to play during a wedding.. I hope to have one who are able to speak my language and Coach A's too! Fair and square..
Last but not least, wedding gown! aye aye aye.. my hands are trembling now.. and i can't stop it from shaking! ahahaha.. of course, the utmost important part yo! well, am dreaming to wear a traditional wedding gown, of course, with laces and ribbons.. pure white yo! as innocent and as pure as possible.. since i'm going to have a mix marriage, i need to reconsider or perhaps change it.. ehe.. we don't want people to misinterpret us, don't we..? ehe..i
As for honeymood, i need a place that is cold, breazy, and comfort.. <i can get these in my own bedroom!> nevertheless, i see no harm to spend some bucks to stay a few nights at somewhere special and pleasing.. eheh.. since i am into hibiscus, what if i go here --> http://www.bungarayaresort.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=87&Itemid=80 ? ahaksss [to be discussed later]
Pheww, i can see lots of details to be considered and mixed well.. I hope that will not cause a mismatched event.. ehe.. after all, this is only a dream and full details can only be materialized when the date has been picked.. ngeee.. can't possibly realize everything.. ehe.. that's it.. (i think i missed some points here..)
*Can't wait!
